Confidence. Everyone wants a little more, but there’s no magic way to acquire it. Most of us lack it, at one time or other. Sometimes it feels like everyone around us is oozing it, while we got forgotten at the end of the confidence queue.
But believe it or not, even celebs struggle with their self-esteem. From making ourselves heard to loving the skin we’re in, here are some of our favourite quotes to give us a little boost…
“Don’t be afraid to correct someone if they’re wrong. I think girls tend to be more polite. You don’t have to be mean about it, but you shouldn’t be afraid to correct someone if they’re wrong.”
When it comes to speaking up, Ellie Kemper wants us all to be a bit more Kimmy Schmidt.
“I don’t care what you think about me. I don’t think about you at all.”
Meanwhile Coco Chanel never lost any sleep over the haters.
“Don’t be afraid to have your own opinion. Don’t take no for an answer. Fight. Because people try to bring you down, and people try to get in the way of your dreams. But if you set your mind to something, you can accomplish that – and then some.”
Can you come round and recite this to us every morning please, Sarah Hyland?
“Never dull your shine for somebody else.”
Tyra Banks is rooting for us all.
“I think self-doubt is healthy. It pushes you, and humbles you… Sometimes I meet people who are too confident. I’m like, “I don’t even like being around you. You’re boring. Get a neurosis, and then we’ll talk.”
Anna Kendrick there, with a reminder that sometimes a little insecurity is better than a big ol’ head.
“I’m not going to apologise for who I am and I’m actually going to love the skin that I’m in.”
When it comes to self-love, Amy Schumer is sorrynotsorry.
“There’s always something you’re allowed to be thankful for, and if you remember that then the bad things become a lot smaller. I would say that that is probably the best way to feel confident about yourself – be grateful and happy for your lot.”
Fearne Cotton is so good at being happy, she literally wrote the book on it.
“When the demon starts to slither my way and say bad sh*t about me I turn around and say, ‘Hey. Cool it. Amy is my friend. Don’t talk about her like that.’ Sticking up for ourselves in the same way we would one of our friends is a hard but satisfying thing to do. Sometimes it works.”
Sometimes it’s hard to know where Amy Poehler ends and Leslie Knope begins. But either way, they’re awesome.
“Love who you are, embrace who you are. Love yourself. When you love yourself, people can kind of pick up on that: they can see confidence, they can see self-esteem, and naturally, people gravitate towards you.”
They don’t call Lilly Singh ‘Superwoman’ for nothing, right.
“Think like a queen. A queen is not afraid to fail. Failure is another stepping stone to greatness.”
But Oprah, do you mean Khaleesi or Elizabeth II?
“Stay afraid, but do it anyway. What’s important is the action. You don’t have to wait to be confident. Just do it and eventually the confidence will follow.”
From queens to the badass Princess of Alderaan, who better to teach us about confidence than the late, great Carrie Fisher?
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